5) Have you been or are you in a dominant/submissive dynamic relationship or is this new to you? Have you been in more than one D/s relationship? How were they the same? How were they different? What is unique about your relationships in your mind?
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Yes I am currently in a D/s dynamic relationship with a polyamorous man who is married but his wife is not a submissive. This is not new to me but it is very new to Him.
I have been in 3 D/s or M/s relationships that have lasted a year or more each and a few shorter term ones that did not work for whatever reason.
I will address the how they were different to start with.
My relationship with my primary was the same for ~5 years. I was first his submissive,grew into his mate and then morphed into his slave. It was so much more than just a M/s relationship thought I thought he was the other mail part of me.
The other 2 were much more M/s styled, the biggest difference in these 3 is that my primary was a very sexual relationship too.
My first other one (we will call it #2) was sexual in that I was played with like a sexual toy ( which I am) . We did not play very ofte( well almost never ) I did not ever have intercourse with relationship #2.
Relationship # 3 was physical in that we played a fair amount but again it was not really sexual. We had sex a couple of times but it was much more of a mental and S/m relationship.
So they have all been very different in a great number of ways but they were also the same in a number of ways.
I was the object of their desire, they all wanted what was best for me as a woman and as a slave. They all were there to support me when I needed it ( until they weren't )
Most of them really put my needs before their wants.
They all knew how to Handle my snark and were for the most part able to handle me as a whole.
3 of them got me to obey out of fear of punishmemt, as well as pleasing them. One of them in the beginning got me to obey simply by me knowing it is what he wanted .Taking what i was willing to give him and as we grew so did his control and power.
All of my relationships have been very unique.
The relationship I am in right now is unique in that he is much more of a daddy but he does Not like to be called that. Again it is more about my being submissive and obedient because it is desired by Him.
He desires to take care of me yet have me still have a lot of self actuation.
He does not love me yet I am not sure He ever will, only time will tell.
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