Do you switch into a dominant role at any time? If you are in a domestic discipline relationship, are there things that you maintain control over? Are you a “switch” in BDSM terms? If not, have you ever thought about it or given thought to why it’s not for you?
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I do not switch into a dominant role at any time outside of work. I may get " bossy " but that's not the same as dominant.
When i was in a domestic discipline dynamic I maintained Control of anything having to do with my job, my house ( I did not live with my Master ) my children and my education ( I chose what to take and to go but I was then expected to maintain a GPA set by Him. ) when i was physically with Master I maintained control of pretty much nothing. So i have done both. I really like knowing that when I need a break and my head needs to just be calm I am able to reach that space much easier. When i am able give all control up and just do what is expected/asked of me.
I am not a switch in the BDSM sense. I have thought about it, I am learning to enjoy co- topping with dominant friends with people I know well. But I do not get the same enjoyment as I do from submitting. I am a very sensuous top ( if I can even be called a top) that in a nutshell is why a am not a switch. Although is do think I could be more of a switch if it was in the situation with my Dom and we were topping another person, it would have to be ok on a regular basis to be really "switchy" and I would have to grow into it before it would be more of a switch thing and not an obedience thing.
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